About me

How I see a relationship

I feel like we have somehow gotten used to the idea that women are difficult and men don't understand emotions (or maybe don't even have them 😀). But I refuse to settle for relationships like that. I believe we can want more. For me, a relationship is a safe and happy place, and a partner is someone I can rely on even when nothing else works. It shouldn't be the source of my biggest stress, or a person who irritates me. I'm here for every one of you who sees it the same way and wants more from a relationship.

My story

For many years I believed that if I read more books, took more courses, or tried even harder, my relationship would finally change. But the same problems kept coming back and I still felt just as empty. It was my own experience with coaching that made me realize what a powerful tool it is (and that I wanted to be able to use it too 😀). I realized that change doesn't start with everyone around us, but with understanding ourselves, our needs, and the way we communicate in a relationship. Because each of us needs it differently. That is why I completed the internationally accredited Human Coaching training, and today I help individuals and couples find their way back to understanding, respect and closeness.

My philosophy

I don't believe in looking for one guilty party. On the contrary, I believe we are both responsible for the relationship and we definitely have the power to influence how it looks. Every relationship has the potential to be great — both partners just have to want to take part. My goal is to help you (re)create a relationship in which you feel heard, respected and on the same side. Everyone is welcome here and I am very much looking forward to working with you.